LGBT carers

At VOCAL, we aim to create a safe and inclusive space that recognises the diversity of all carers, regardless of sexual orientation, gender identity or expression. We understand that carers who identify as LGBTQ+ may face unique challenges in their caring role.

Caring for a partner, family member or friend can be both rewarding and challenging. For LGBTQIA+ carers, there might be additional challenges such as:

• Going into hospitals, GP surgeries or other healthcare settings can sometimes bring back difficult memories, especially if your past experiences have been negative or dismissive.
• In some families, the expectation of caring for older parents falls to an LGBTQIA+ sibling, particularly if they don’t have children while other siblings do.
• You may have built a chosen family of friends, rather than being close to your biological relatives. While this can be a source of strength, it may also mean that caring looks different to what others expect.
• Looking after someone else often leaves little space for your own needs. For LGBTQIA+ carers, you might put questions about your own sexuality, gender or wellbeing on hold.
• Support networks or services may not always be inclusive or understanding, leading to feelings of isolation.

Every carer should feel valued and supported in their role, and we’re here to help.

Our support

We’re person-led in our approach, and when you get in touch with our Carer Support Team, you’ll receive tailored support based on your individual needs and circumstances.

We’re committed to equality and diversity. Everyone at VOCAL team receives regular training on LGBT awareness and inclusive practices, and we work closely with local organisations to ensure LGBT carers are represented and supported.

LGBT Health and Wellbeing

We are proud to work in partnership with LGBT Health and Wellbeing, a Scottish charity which supports the health, wellbeing, and equality of LGBT+ adults (16+). As part of the Carewell Health and Wellbeing partnership, LGBT Health also offers a range of services for unpaid carers.

“For LGBTQ+ people and carers, accessing our services can help them find a sense of belonging for both parts of their identity. Joining our community can really help to reduce social isolation and the associated risks of depression and anxiety.

“Being around other people who are going through similar experiences, without having to explain who they are, makes a huge difference to people’s mental health.”

Diane

LGBT Health and Wellbeing Support Worker

Their services include:

• Individual support: Meet with Diane for up to six support sessions. You can talk about practical issues, emotional support and your health and wellbeing. Sessions can take place by phone, email, in person or online.
• Peer Carers Support Groups: Join a monthly peer support group or an upcoming event, such as:
  • LGBTQ+ carers peer support group: online
  • Scottish network of parents and carers of trans kids: 4 Duncan Place, EH6 8HW

In addition to services for LGBTQIA+ carers, LGBT Health and Wellbeing also offers a counselling service and a free helpline.

Further resources

LGBT Charter

We are currently working towards achieving the LGBT Charter, in partnership with LGBT Youth Scotland. You can find out more about the charter on their website.